Marcia Brandwynne has had a long and distinguished career as a television news and talk professional with a diverse and exceptional background. Her spontaneous style as an anchor and reporter for the ABC and CBS owned and operated stations in San Francisco and Los Angeles, brought her acclaim as a singular personality in broadcast news. Her warm conversational style of interviewing has been the hallmark of her career on television.

Dr. Rick Shuman is a licensed therapist and no stranger to the world of mental health. His knowledge and ease translates to likability and friendliness. When he speaks, it is in simple, clear terms, addressing problems that would otherwise be complex and complicated. Dr. Shuman was a member of the KTLA Morning News for three years, where viewers came to appreciate his weekly contributions to this popular and highly rated news program. He has completed a television pilot for 20th Television and completed another pilot for Paramount Television. He recently teamed with Marcia Brandwynne to create and complete a radio pilot entitled "The Marcia and Dr. Rick Show". Dr. Shuman is a frequent guest on CNN, CBS, FOX, OPRAH and EXTRA.

Send e-mail to Marcia and Dr. Rick with your questions about life and relationships.

Mary Beth writes: "My 11 year old daughter wants to be in beauty pageants. I think they're stupid. Are they harmful to her? What if she loses? Help me fight this silliness."

Arturo writes: "My girlfriend chews with her mouth open and I don't know how to tell her it bothers me. How do I tell her this without making her mad at me?"

Rob writes: "I found out that my girlfriend slept with one of my good friends recently. They were both drunk and totally apologized for their actions, and are begging my forgiveness. Should I give it to them? And if so, under what conditions?"

Suzanne writes: "I'm 27 years old and am dating a man who's 29. We have been going out for four months and my feelings for him continue to grow. The problem for me is that he frequently asks me about how many guys I dated and what went on sexually. I was very promiscuous in college and experimented sexually during that period. I have not told him the truth from that time in my life and I'm not sure what is the right thing to do. Please help!"

Iris writes: "So, my friends and I were talking about men and sex the other day. The guys we know love to have sex with the lights on. All of us shudder at thte thought because they see all of our body flaws. My guy tells me that he is only looking at "me" and not any individual parts. I'm uncomfortable with this. Help!"

Joni writes: "My son wants to get a tattoo. I think it's dumb and I know he'll regret it when he gets to be my age. How can I convince him I'm right?"

Burton writes: " I've been dating a woman who is pretty perfect. I have a job and use my money to pay off my debts which are considerable. I haven't wanted to tell her that I have had, in the past, a spending issue. How can I tell her so she doesn't run for the hills?"

Irene writes: "My 12 year old daughter recently saw a segment on one of the national talk shows about teaching kids about their sexuality. Apparently, they raised the subject of masterbation. My daughter asked me what that meant and frankly, my mind froze and the room started spinning. What should I have said?"

Oliver writes: "My girlfriend of 7 months is turning 35 and wants to throw herself a birthday party. In going over the guest list with her, it was clear that several of the people she intended to invite were old boyfriends. I honestly do not feel that is right and told her so. She thinks my insecurity is showing and I think her insensitivity is on display. Who do you think has the stronger position? Thanks for your thoughts."

Harrison writes: "I hate my job. I hate going to work. I feel as if I get no respect there. I work in an accounting department and although the numbers are good, I don't find what I do interesting and I feel I am in a dead-end job. I want to quit so badly, but the economy scares me. So I feel stuck. What should I do?"

Lulu writes: "My friend has a non-life threatening STD. That being said, there is no cure for it. She goes out and has casual sex with men without protection often. She doesn't tell them about her STD. She doesn't think it's a big deal because you can't die from it. I feel bad for the poor guys."

Janine writes: " How do you know when you are in love? My boyfriend just found out that he has a chronic disease. We've been together for two years and we a re pretty good together although I would say I am not mad for him in the way I fantasize about being in love with someone. we have respect for each other and like each other a lot. But, now he's got this disease and I feel guilty for thinking that I don't love him enough to stay. "

Walter writes: "My wife of 7 years, whom I love dearly, recently suggested that we try using sex toys during our love making. We have never done this before or even discussed the possibility. I felt insulted and offended and it has made me wonder if she finds me wanting in this part of our life. I have not really said anything about my reaction, nor have I rejected the idea. What do you think of my reaction?"

"My wife can't resist a bargain.. even if it's for an item she neither wants nor needs. Our house is loaded with crap we never use. Is she a shopaholic? Is that a legitimate psychological disorder? Can it be treated? If so, how?"

Kendall writes: "My 2 year old son has developed a bad habit of not saying hello to anyone and is insisting that certain things have to be his way. For example, he visits his grandma daily and they have a routine. But, Grandma is annoyed that the boy doesn't say hello when he sees her and just expects to be entertained. She wants to punish him. My wife and I think this will pass."

Bruce writes: "I read in an article in Time Magazine that said there's a new trend toward purity in young couples and that they are keeping their virginity until they get married. Is this a good thing? Shouldn't couples be experienced sexually before they get hitched?"

Marisa writes: "I find myself in a difficult situation. Last week, I went to dinner with my fiance and saw one of my dearest friend's husband there with another woman. He did not see us and it was obvious that this was a romantic get-together. I am agonizing about whether to tell my friend what happened or stay clear of this situation. What would you two recommend?"

Julie writes: "I have had a mad crush on a local newscaster. I can't imagine he wouldn't be interested, so I want to approach him. I know he is single, in his 20's (I think) and lives in the Valley like me. I see him at the grocery store on the weekend sometimes. I don't want him to think I am strange or anything, but I think there could be a connection. How do you suggest I contact him?"

Hannah writes: "Sometimes I feel that i want to leave my husband. Ther is no other man in my life. I have been married for six years which have gone by very quickly. I don't know if this is just a phase, if it is normal, and don't know if I love him or not. Sometimes, I just want to be alone. We have a child together, too. Should I just suck it up and stay in the marriage? Please, please, please give me some sound advice."

Deborah writes: "I recently found a small amount of pot in my 16 year old daughter's purse. When I confronted her with this, she told me that she had gotten it from a friend of hers and admitted that she had smoked pot at her friend's home on several occasions: two times that included getting high with her friend's parents! I am still angry beyond words. What do I do?"

Annalise writes: "My boyfriend doesn't like my sister and her family. When they met him, they were unhappy that he'd been married before and has a child. Since then, they have tried to accept him, but my boyfriend doesn't really like to be around them. He is polite when we see them, but I love my sister and want to have fun with them as a couple. How can I get my boyfriend to join in?"

Marilyn writes: "My husband has just lost his job and we are very worried. I don't know how to make him feel better because I am so anxious about how we live and not lose what we have. I think I am feeling that my husband could have avoided this and I have sort of shut down my feelings toward him which is making us even more unhappy. How can I change my attitude? I am afraid I am going to stop loving him and it will ruin our marriage."

Ellen writes: "I've been living with a terrible secret for four years. I am happily married with a three year old son who is adored by both myself and my husband. However, I had a brief affair just after we got married which resulted in pregnancy that led to the birth of my son. I have never told either man the truth. I love my husband and am tormented by this every day. What would you do in this situation? I live in fear and anxiety."

Tamir writes: "My wife and I have been married for 11 years. Overall, we have a terrific marriage. The problem is that my wife has started flossing her teeth and using one of those gum massagers at night in bed. I find this offensive and she thinks I'm being ridiculous to be bothered by this after we have been together for so long. We have agreed to follow whatever recommendation you make."

Morgan writes: "My boyfriend and I love each other so much. But we've broken up several times in teh past two years. The reason is because of his jealousy and his inability to trust me. I've never cheated on him. How do I make him stop, and trust me? It seems like nothing works."

Letty writes: "My 15 year old son is leaving for summer camp. How often should I call him? It's the first time away from home, but he'll be up north for about a month. I don't want him to feel bad about leaving home but I want to speak with him over the summer... How many calls are too many?"

Andrew writes: "I'm a 26 year old guy and I'm over it paying for all the dates! Why does the guy have to always pay? Who started this? Some of these women make more money than I do."

Brenda writes: "I've been divorced for almost 4 years. I was the victim of my husband being unfaithful. We have three kids together, all now out of the house. He and I talk several times a week even though he has a girlfriend. I've not been able to find someone special after all of these years. I am dependant on my ex financially and I do have fear of rocking the boat. I want to move on... What do you think I should do?"

Carolyn writes: "I have made a mistake. I am 30 years old and I have slept with my 23 year old colleague. Things were really great for the first month. I thought things would be just fun and not serious, but then I REALLY feel for him. He doesn't feel the same any more and I feel devastated. Every time I see him in the office, I start to cry. It is a release for me but not enough. Do you have other tips about mending a broken heart?

Roger writes: "I've been married for 6 years. We had an excellent sex life for the first two years of our marriage but, my wife frequently says she is not in the mood for sex. How do you think I should deal with this very frustrating circumstance?"

Jennifer (from Washington State) writes: "I feel lonely and depressed all the time. I have struggled with this for years and it certainly doesn't help that I live under the Seattle clouds. I feel like it's time to get on an anti-depressant of some kind. But, I'm VERY nervous about getting on any kind of drug. Can you give me the pros and cons of taking pills for this?"

Lida writes: "I think my husband has narcissist personality syndrome. We have an 8 months old that he loves to death. he is a long time cop who's not that into being cop-like but he is so selfish. He says he loves my son and me but his actions are all about his own needs -- emotionally, physically, financially, etc. When I feel like maybe he doesn't love me or want to be married, he says that's absurd and that he loves me."

Britney Spears will have expanded visits with her sons following a child-custody hearing that went off without a hitch Tuesday, capping a three-month period of relative calm and stability for the troubled pop star and mother of two.

Micah writes: "Gossip, gossip, gossip! I am tired of the gossip. Over the years, people have accused me of being gay. I'm not and I don't know what I have to make them stop. Yes, I like fashion. Big deal -- so does P. Diddy. I work in a hair salon. Big deal. I am sensitive and so are lots of other men. I have gay male friends, again, does that really matter? This is really starting to affect me. How do I prove to them I am NOT GAY!!!!!???"

Sloan writes: I am dating a man who is stuck on his ex. He knows that she is not the one, but he is stuck on the fantasy of her, not the reality. What is a girl to do?"

Samantha writes: "How long should you wait to sleep with a man you want to have a relationship with? Is it ever too soon?

Amanda writes: "I'm 25 and I graduated from college 3 years ago. I live with my parents. I do have a job -- I don't make a lot of money so living with my parents helps me out with my finances. I would like to stay another two years and save money. My parents want me to find my own place by the end of the summer. They say "It's time". How can I convince them to let me stay?"

Gretchen writes: "I am shocked by Dr. Rick's reaction to the woman who wants to have a child on her own. Yes, it would be wonderful to have two parents, but, really, Dr. Rick, what percentage do you know of such fantastic fathers? I think that was the most shallow statement you have ever made. A child need love, not two parents."

Paul writes: "I have been seeing the same woman for three years. I am in my early 40's and she is 27. She wants to get married and has already chosen a ring. It is $35,000. I just don't think rings should cost this kind of money. I am not one of the Microsoft millionaires, but I make a good living. I love her and want to give her what she wants, but I think it is unreasonable. What do you think?"

Hillary writes: "I have been going to the same hair stylist for years. I have given her gifts for the births of her children, been invited to dinners with our husbands and have enjoyed a nice relationship for years and probably see her out of the salon about four times a year. PROBLEM: I haven't liked the cut she is giving me for the past year. Styles have changed, but she hasn't. How can I break up with my hair stylist?"

Betty writes: "My 31 year old daughter is gay. She has been with her girlfriend for four years and I feel very fondly for her friend. However, I am totally opposed to gay marriage. My daughter and her partner have just announced that they are getting married in a couple of months. I love my daughter deeply but, given how I feel, I cannot imagine myself going to the wedding. Please help me make sense of this."

Peggy writes: "I am just heartsick over Tim Russert's Sudden Death. I feel strange about it because I never met him, yet he has been in my home an hour every Sunday for over a decade. I feel like I have lost a stable, intelligent, kind friend. Is this normal?"

Susan writes: "My boyfriend and I are so far apart politically that we are beginning to fight all the time. Every other part of our life seem cool. But, he is much too conservative in his views. Can a Democrat and a Republican live in harmony? I notice I'm so mad after we watch the news together that I don't want to make love to him that night. Does this sound odd?"

Vincent writes: "I have a terrible premonition that I'm going to lose my job. I'm in the financial sector and now that things are going badly for the economy, I see downsizing on the horizon. Why I think it's me, I don't know, but, my anxiety is so acute that I can hardly do my work. I feel dread on Sunday nights. Should I offer to quit so I can end this terrible thing? Please I need advice."

Angie writes: "I am a 43 year old woman and I am dating a guy who is 29. We were living together for 3 years and we've been together for 5 years. He broke up with me about 6 months ago. Then, a month and a half ago he called me and wanted to see me. I agreed. He wants to get back together but his situation is still the same. He gets high every day, he doesn't have a car but, I love him. He wants to take it slow. I just don't know what to do."

Mary writes: "My boyfriend drinks and drives all the time. He never appears drunk. To give you an example of how much he drinks, last week, we were out and he finished an entire bottle by himself (plus 2 more glasses) and drove home from the restaurant. Our waiter expressed concern, but it didn't matter. We have been dating for two years now. I'm not his mother. How do I get him to realize this is dangerous?"

Fred writes: "I know so many people who smoke marijuana regularly. Contrary to the stereotype, they are educated, professional adults who just want to relax. I still think it's wrong, but feel funny being so against it. I feel as though I am a teenager again dealing with peer pressure. They don't ask me if I want it anymore. But, I'm not invited out as much as I was when we were in our 20's and 30's. Do you think pot is a drug and using it is wrong?"

Sheila writes: "A man approached me when I was walking around my office in Westwood. He is an attorney in the neighborhood and he wanted my card. He called me a week later to set up lunch. I am not interested in this guy, but I kind of feel that I should give any guy a chance who shows interest in me. I am reluctantly going to have lunch with him in two weeks. Am I stupid for doing this?"

Mary writes: "Hope you can help me. I need advice. I have been married for 29 years and am 46 years old. I have a 23 year old and a 20 year old. The thing is -- I had an emotional affair with a guy who was only 26 and I fell for him so much. I am trying to repair my marriage as best I can because I still have a lot of feelings for my husband. But, the problem is that I can't seem to let go of this young guy."

Gayle writes: "I have two young children (6 and 20 months). The 6 year old has a potty mouth and embarrasses me all the time. He drops the "f-bomb" with a cute little smile. He uses all kinds of profanity and I have tried everything to make him stop. Soap in his mouth or ot sauce on the tongue have done nothing... Help me stop my kid from sounding like he was raised by sailors."

Janine writes: "How can I tell if my boyfriend really wants to get married? We've been living together for four years and every time I bring up marriage, he tried to joke me out of it or make me feel as if one day we'll be husband and wife. I think he's been stringing me along. Yesterday he told me he would be willing to move in together. Is this a way to shut me up or is this another trick to avoid a total commitment?"

Maggie writes: "I recently went to a business lunch with a man in his 50's who is divorced. He says he goes out on lots of datesand is looking for the right person. I thought of a woman for him who would probably like him. When I told him the name of the woman his face twisted up like a towel and he said "yuck -- she's so old!" I find it common amongst men over 50 who think they need to be with women in their 20's or 30's. Why?

JoAnn writes: "I am a military spouse, and I have normal sexual needs. So what do I/we do? It's another terrible predicament the government doesn't want to address. Loneliness is one thing. Neediness needs to be addressed. We base spouses suffer enough, and we don't need guilt too."

Unknown writes: "I live in a very small town and I know my best friend's new husband is cheating. I want to tell her about it, so she won't have a baby with him (they are only recently married). But, the problem is that the woman he is having an affair with, is my step sister who has never been lucky in love. Both women adore him. I adore both women and have been keeping this a secret because I don't want anyone to be hurt."

Jennifer writes: "My boyfriend asked me to try a three way sexual experience with a woman he knows who's game. I sort am attracted by the idea but I think some people would think it's strange and wrong. What do you think if I experiment in this way? Would my boyfriend throw it back in my face someday?"

Nell writes: "I set up a couple on a date. My friend "Sheila" thought "Jim" was the greatest guy in the world and can't wait to go out with him again. "Jim" wasn't as enthusiastic because he thought she was too fat. He isn't wrong. She can stand to lose a few pounds, maybe 25. Should I tell her the truth?"

Pamela writes: "I can't stand my daughter's boyfriend. I have good instincts and I was right about the idiot she married (and later divorced) and right about my son's "good for nothing" wife (who he later divorced). I seem to be right a lot, but nobody listens to me. I have no proof, other than a mother's intuition that this guy is bad news, just like the first loser. How can I get her to listen to me this time?"

Daisy writes: "I had a very interesting experience with a celebrity. He is married, with children and his career couldn't be hotter. I was approached by a tabloid to sell my story with accompanying pictures. The money is pretty low so I didn't even consider it. It they paid me one million dollars, I would probably do it."

Barbara writes: "How do you know when you're satisfied with yourself? As I write, I cry. I don't know why it is uncontrollable. I have 3 great kids, and a loving husband. I wish I had a key to life and relationships or even a pamphlet! I guess what I really want to know is how to make myself happy. I know I am the only one that is supposed to know but I don't.

Nelson writes: "I am recently remarried and now live in a different state from my ex-wife. She's planning to come to my son's wedding. My current wife is happy to have her stay with us over the weekend. I, on the other hand, think this is a recipe for disaster. I'm watching for your sage advice."

Rosie writes: "I work with someone who smells bad. We have a small office and it's very noticeable. I don't want to be too direct as it can be hurtful. How can I let him know he's got a problem without embarassing him?"

Allison writes: " There is a sexy guy at the office who I would love to date. I don't know how to get him to ask me out. I try to bump into him whenever I can, but I start to feel shy when we begin to talk. I'm usually very forthright and my brain says I should ask him out, but, my fear is that he will hate that. How should I proceed?"

Henry writes: "I believe my wife is having an affair. I have started spying on her computer and try to check her cell phone when she's not looking. This is driving me crazy. I'm ready to hire a detective to follow her. I think this is wrong, but I'm unable to stop myself. What do you think is wrong with me?"

Maggie writes: "I'm 15 and a half years old and all I can think about is getting my driver's permit and getting my license. The problem is that my dad says I'm too young to be driving. Why can't he be more supportive like the parents of my friends?"

Monica writes: "I am currently dating a man with three young children. Although this situation is not preferable to me, I realize that it comes with the territory of dating in my late 30's. I feel like I should get to know the kids because they may be part of my life if I choose to be with this man forever. But they aren't "my" kids. I am confused as to who I should get to know; this man or his children.

Ingrid writes: "I have been thinking about being a surrogate mother for money. I think it's a super way to help somebody who can't have a child and, at the same time, make some money for myself. I see nothing wrong with this but my family is so angry that I would consider it. Is there something wrong with wanting to use my body to help somebody?"

Jackie writes: "I can't seem to keep up with my bills. My boyfriend won't marry me until I get out of debt. I owe about $10,000 in credit card debt, and $6,000 in medical bills. He says he won't hitch his wagon until the loads are equal. He has no debt. How can I get this under control? He's the love of my life. I want to marry him and have children with him. How do you think I should handle this?"

Annie Mae writes: "I have been married for four years and have a two year old child. I married my husband because I was getting older and he was a good man. We fight all the time and I think marrying him was a mistake. Should I stay married to this man so my child will be raised with a father in the home?

Joel writes: " I don't "get" women. I went out with a woman for business drinks. We finished business and started talking about relationship stuff. We are both single. I asked her what she liked in a guy. She told me she liked "direct and honest guys." Well, the night progressed and I told her I thought she was beautiful and I wanted to "make out" with her. She didn't respond. I'm confused."

Marcie writes: "I have had my heart broken three times in my life. I am in my 30's and really want to find someone I will be with for the long haul, but, I'm afraid of getting back on the horse again. In the past, I have had trouble figuring out who is good for me. I am not sure I trust my instinct. I just went out on a first date with a guy who seems nice, but how can I really know? Do you have advice as to how I get back in the game without getting hurt again?

Viewer question: Len writes: "A good friend of mine is no longer speaking to me because he says i was insensitive when his father passed away. He's angry that I didn't phone him, but instead, e-mailed him my condolences. I've apologized up and down but he refuses to answer me. I care for him and this is very hurtful. What can I do?

Ricka writes: "I have not spoken to my sister in ten years due to a family issue over money, since our mother's death. I am about to have a mastectomy for the second time and would like to reconcile with my sister. My sister made it clear to a family member that she wishes me well but has no desire to reconcile with me. I would have liked to have some closure prior to our deaths. I would like your input on this issue."

Erica writes: "I am nervous about going to the gynecologist. I am 25, a virgin, and terrified of the doctor. When do you have to have my "down there" checked? How can I get over the fear?"

Viewer question: Maggie writes: "I've been watching this new show 'In Treatment' which got me thinking about my relationship with my psychotherapist. I just started working with him two months ago and he seems very flirtatious with me and has commented on several occasions about how appealing I am. Something seems off to me. How should I handle this?

Denette writes: "I'm a 46 year old woman and I am bisexual. Maybe two of three people know this. Everyone else in my life does not. My parents are dead and I'm not that close to my family but I have some dear friends that are very religious and I know they would not approve. I love them dearly. They really are like my family. I am starting to date again after about four years of not dating or being in a relationship. I'm tied of lying. Should I come out?"

Leonard writes: "I am a 34 year old man with a wonderful girlfriend who is very angry with me. My close friend, who is a girl, recently had breast reconstruction after having had breast cancer. My friend was very excited about her new breasts and asked me if I wanted to see them? How could I say no? I told my girlfriend and now I'm in the dog house. Throw me a bone and help me out..."

Janine writes: "I have a 31 year old daughter who has been married for over a year and has a newborn. My husband and I have reservations about this man because we think he's gay. I decided to read his diary to look for any clues of homosexuality. The only thing I found that was unusual (beside the fact that a MAN has a diary) was a lot of flowerly and descriptive language. Should I drop this issue?"

Leroy writes: "My wife of four years got hooked on this new T.V. show called "Moment of Truth" and thinks it would be fun to go on the show and wants my support to apply. I think it is a lousy idea but, maybe I'm wrong. What would you do if you were in my shoes?"

Viewer question: My husband feels like he gets no respect from my children. They are both teenagers and they act like teenagers. He constantly tells me to make them respect him. We've been married now for 6 years. I feel stuck in the middle and helpless. What can I do?

Martha writes: "I'm a single 28 year old woman. I have an active social life and hope to find a great partner in life. Until then, I have had the love of my amazing dachshund, Jaspar. Unfortunately, he recently died and I've ben in total shock. People who have no pets think I am nuts for feeling this way about a dog. Do you think I'm overreacting to feel such sadness in losing my pooch?

Viewer question: "I'm hoping you can settle a conflict my girlfriend and I have been having. She feels that if we are really soulmates I would just know what her needs are and if she has to ask me for what she wants, she thinks it diminshes what I do in response. I think I disagree -- what do both of you think?"

Viewer question: Becky writes: "My friend's father passed away last night. She is back east with her family and I can't go to the funeral. The only relative I have lost is my grandfather. Her father was only in his 50's and I can't imagine the pain she's feeling. How can I be a good friend to during this time? What can I say or do? Please give me some sound advice.

Roberto writes: " My wife and I can't afford to live the way we've been living any more. I'm making a lot less money than I was a year ago and I can't get her to shop shopping. My religion doesn't allow divorce, but if it did, I would leave her now. How do I get her to help me stop shopping?"

Rochelle writes: "My husband and I have a major disagreement. While neither of us want our 17 year old son to drink, my husband thinks he's going to do it anyway, so why not let him drink at our house? I do not agree with this. Please help!"

Belinda writes: "Where can I meet a man? I hate going on-line because everyone looks like a loser. I'm a 32 year old attractive female with a very good job. I am an executive in a large company and I make quite a good salary. I think men are attracted but, my friends think my job and my position intimidate them once they find out what I do."

Seth writes: "I'm 19 years old and am average height of about 5'10". However, I have very small feet. Often, I get teased about small feet equalling a small penis. This is causing me a lot of distress. How do I handle this when people comment?"

Viewer question: Carole writes "I'm a single woman in my late forties. I've never been married. A year ago I met the love of my life and although he feels the same way about me, he is sixteen years younger. Because of our age difference, we probably don't have a future together. Should we keep seeing each other and face the inevitable pain of parting when I'm even older? Or do we just enjoy what we have now?

Viewer question: Corrinne writes, "I did something terrible. I read my daughter's diary. Now, I know things that I wish I didn't. Should I confess and try to have a discussion with her or keep the disturbing information to myself? I need your help."

Viewer question: Jonathon writes: "My wife of 17 years died unexpectedly nine months ago. Truthfully we did not have a happy marriage. we have two amazing children. To my total surprise, I've met someone who I love and can imagine spending my life with. I feel guilty. Am I betraying the memory of my wife? I'm fearful about how my two kids will feel about this".

Viewer question: Roger writes "It seems to me everything in our busy life together is more important than our sex life. What do the two of you think about scheduling sex? I think it's a great idea. My wife says what happened to spontaneity and romance? Please help!"

Viewer question: Lucinda writes "I dated a man for five months and recently broke it off. It just never felt right to me. He calls me several times a day and is sometimes loving, but often angry. Two of my tires were recently slashed. He is now calling my friends asking them to help us get back together. I feel anxious and I'm having nightmares. How should I handle this?"

Viewer question: Roslyn writes: "I am a gay woman looking for a parnter. Last night at a restaurant, the hostess was lovely and seemed very open and likeable. My "gaydar" wasn't working and I couldn't tell if she was gay. I didn't want to offend her but I wanted to see if she was interested in a cup of coffee with me. However, I didn't have the courage. If I went back to the restaurant, could you help me figure out what to say? Or maybe you could tell me if this is socially unacceptable What is your sound advice?"

Viewer question: Jon writes: "I've been dating a woman for almost six years and last night she gave me an ultimatum: marriage or go our separate ways. I'm a struggling jazz musician and my art is "front and center" in my life. What should I do? Music or Marriage?

Viewer question: Charlene writes: "Fairy tales have historically depicted step moms as evil and untrustworthy. I am neither yet my children buy into the myth and nothing I do can change their attitude. What is your sound advice?

Viewer question: Elena writes: "I've been in love with a married man for the past two years. I know that he loves me and promised we will be together when his youngest child graduates from high school in two years. How can I be certain that I'm not wasting my time?"

Viewer question: Last year Dr. Oz told millions of women on Oprah that for a healthy life you need to have 200 orgasms a year. I am single and get no where near this. Am I normal or is this number what everyone is getting?

Viewer Question: I'm 26 years old and have been sexually active for the last 4 years and have never had an orgasm. When I fake it with my boyfriend, I really don't know what to do. I'm hoping you will offer me some help.

Viewer question: I'm 36 years old and have been dating a 41 year old man for 7 months. I'm the first woman that he's had a long term relationship with. Most of his other relationships have been with men. He says that he wants to settle down and have children with me. I love him and my heart says "yes". Several friends have made me doubt my feelings.. What do you think?

New York governor Eliot Spitzer resigns following a money for sex scandal. He's not the first man to cheat and not the last. Why do men cheat?

Viewer question: I'm 28 years old and have only lived here for three years. I'm having a hard time meeting men and, while reluctant, I'm thinking of using the internet dating sites. Do either of you have any advice on this topic and any real life experiences on internet dating?

Viewer question: I want to know how I can break up with my girlfriend. We've been together a year and I was her first boyfriend. I really want out of this but I don't want to hurt her. What can I do?

Viewer question: I've met a really fun girl on line. We laugh a lot and i think she is someone I would like a lot. It's time to meet in person and I did a bad thing. I sent her a picture of my brother who is O.K. looking. I am really plan and somewhat overweight. How can I fix this?

Viewer question: I am single and in my 30's. I have a very good friend who, unsolicited, offered to pay for breast augmentation. I have always been comfortable with my appearance, but this has rattled me. Does everyone have to have big boobs to attract men? Does this have anything to do with my single status?

Viewer question: "I'm a 42 year old woman who runs a very successful business however I do not have a man in my life. I am exploring having a child on my own. I'd be a loving mother. I feel I am doing the right thing. I respect you both. Do you support me in this choice?

Viewer question: My girlfriend recently gave me the book called "The Secret" as a gift. She heard about it on Oprah and thinks I must read it. I don't know what to make of it. What do you two think about "The Secret?"

Viewer question: I had an affair over two years ago. It has totally ruined my marriage. i do love my wife and for two years have tried hard to get life back to normal. But she can't get over it. We've been for counseling. Is there any way to win her trust back or should I find a way to move out of this marriage and meet someone else?

Viewer question: My wife is very attractive and loves men to look at her. She is very flirtatious and I have asked her to stop being so "out there." She says that's who she is and that she is faithful. I find that I am starting to check her e-mail, and her purse because I don't trust her. I don't like this behavior in me but she is the cause of it. How can I make her stop wanting so much attention?

Viewer question: I recently discovered that my husband is watching porn on the internet. I think it's disgusting and demeaning to me. I've told him I don't want him to continue to do this. He thinks I'm being controlling. Please help us.

Viewer question: Last summer, I went back east to attend my 15th High School Reunion. I went without my boyfriend of two years. Unfortunately, I did something I regret everyday. I had a one-night stand with an old friend. Should I tell my boyfriend?

Viewer Question: My wife spends too much time on the internet and often brings the computer to bed at night. If she isn't on the computer, she's watching bad television. I think this is interfering with our romantic life. How should I approach her with more time with me and less time on the laptop?

Viewer question: I found condoms in my 13 year old daughter's purse. She says she's not having sex and they were given to her as a joke. I want to believe her. Should I?

Viewer question: My girlfriend and I have been dating for eight months and I just got word that she's going to ask me to marry her on February 29th for leap year. I am not ready for this decision but I don't want to hurt her feelings. I do like her a lot, but I don't think it's her place to pop this question. Is it?

Viewer question: My husband stays in contact with his old girlfriend. The breakup devastated him. She was the "love of his life". We've been together for six years and he still e-mails her and talks with her. i am upset by this and I think he should break off all contact. He says she was a part of his life for a long time, helped raise her kids. he thinks I'm being silly. Am I?

Viewer question: I've been married for nine years and have two children. Our sex life has taken a back seat to other parts of our life. I've become bored and wonder what you suggest to put some spark back into our sex life.

Viewer question: For my 40th birthday, my husband got me a gift certificate for cosmetic surgery. I'm not sure whether to be grateful or insulted. Please advice.

Viewer question: My husband had a one night stand... What do I do?